Open Leadership is Bigger than You
This is an invitation for any leader to grow. One needs to continuously grow to be an Open Leader. ‘Open’ means open to all sides, especially the insides. “A big error for a leader is to put his self-interest above the group.” One hears this frequently. The solution looks simple: put the interest of the Read the full article…
Female-Friendly in Open Leadership
A woman should feel free to show she is a woman, not only in her appearance but also in her way of doing. She shouldn’t feel urged to take up a male way of doing things. Why is it more difficult for a woman to get to the top? In principle, this can have many Read the full article…
What Has Been, Is, and Will Be
Humanity is in turmoil. Several of the world’s biggest problems are at present happening together because of an underlying process. There is a need for a comprehensive look to see this process thoroughly. It is not so much related to what happens to us, humans, as to what happens from within us, who we are. Read the full article…
Till I Find you
I will keep searching for you over mountains and time and through much that happens meanwhile. I will keep searching for you in eyes and deeds in many things important and unimportant and big and small. I will keep searching for you in what I do and don’t do for five hundred years in what Read the full article…
Three Short Meditations: 3′ Contemplation
This is a short series of short meditations. The best is to do the meditations in the following order, but only one at a time in the beginning. If one goes well, you can proceed to the next. If they all go well, you can do them in any order you like: Three Short Meditations: Read the full article…
Three Short Meditations: 3′ Empty Teacup
This is a short series of short meditations. The best is to do the meditations in the following order, but only one at a time in the beginning. If one goes well, you can proceed to the next. If they all go well, you can do them in any order you like: Three Short Meditations: Read the full article…
Three Short Meditations: Focus
This is a short series of short meditations. You can take a few minutes to do any one of them. You could start with one minute. Then, gradually, more and more if you like. It’s best to put a time on it before you start, and let your mobile give you a signal at the Read the full article…
Each Belief Deserves Respect – In Freedom, Openness, and Depth
We are not going to get out of a big religious mess without respect and a huge exercise in ‘saying yes.’ Religion and belief A religious feeling is, well, a feeling. And It’s religious. So far, so good. It can be a wonderful, poetic feeling. To me, ‘religion’ is about this feeling. [see: “The Religious Read the full article…
Emptiness
[see also: “Emptiness!“] Empty of concepts in deep meditation. *** Listen! The silence. All lines are parallel. The universe is here. Mind bent on infinity. Somewhere a bird whistles. It is this bird here and now. And then there is this great love, great compassion. ▪▪▪ I. am I. am I. am no longer I. Read the full article…
Sacredness, Sacrilege, Openness
In matters of traditional religion, this turns everything inside out. The words one uses are unimportant. What lies behind is hugely important. ►►► WHY read this? To relieve suffering and enhance human growth through what is most important for many.◄◄◄ Enemies God-fearing people still frequently see atheists as their enemies. An atheist doesn’t say: “I Read the full article…
Meditating on Compassion
Meditation = Compassion Landscape In meditation, one creates for oneself an open inner mental landscape. Feelings and thoughts can freely roam about. One keeps looking at them, knowing that one is the landscape, and one is the feelings, and one is the thoughts. After a while, one way or another, the landscape can become even Read the full article…
Why Do They Vote Differently?
The other side is always the other side, viewed from what is to them the other side. So, are they voting differently, or are you? ►►► WHY read this? To preserve democracy, we need to answer this question.◄◄◄ Seeing ‘the other side’ is primarily internal. As a human being, one doesn’t see one’s mind, but Read the full article…
Respecting Bad Memories
Bad memories are meaningful to you. That is why something touched you and is still present in you. Respecting your memories is respecting you, also in your imagination. About Posttraumatic Stress, [see: “PTSD: a groovy kind of stress“]. You can go to your memory with a Compassionate stance. That is, you don’t want to hurt Read the full article…
The Disease and the Reality
Disease differentiates the healthy from the diseased. Reality is much fuzzier. Continua In another blog text, I described diseases as – at least in many cases – continua rather than binary entities. [see: “A Disease is a Continuum, Not an Entity“] There is also a continuum from healthy to ‘diseased.’ I also wrote about disease Read the full article…
Growth
One can build. Growing is different. It is the essence of the essence of the essence of meditation whether or not on a cushion. It may seem like something at the outskirts. It is the pearl at the center. It may seem like a path upon which you travel. It is the path that is Read the full article…
Am I My Thoughts?
What a good way to start meditating. What a good way for me to start my meditation. Am I my thoughts? Well. Am I my thoughts…? Hm. Am – I – my – thoughts? These are four problematic terms. Am I my thoughts? Or I am just this single thought of now? Am I at Read the full article…
Open Religious Atheism
Open Religion is, in Openness, not tied to any exclusive image of God, nor even to the exclusivity of God. Openness is Open to what is not easily, or not at all conceptually graspable. Even talking about ‘God’ is at the edge of being able to do so. ►►► WHY read this? All religion is Read the full article…