The Endless Complexity of an Emotion
When we take the time to truly experience one emotion, it becomes clear that no feeling stands alone. Every emotion, if we allow ourselves to fall into it, opens a vast and intricate inner landscape. Each emotion is a gateway to the endless complexity of who we are in the countless layers of our inner Read the full article…
Spiritual Massage: Embracing the Unity of Body and Mind
This blog explores how bodily massage can become spiritual ― engaging aspects of the self that, while not easily conceptualized, reveal the unity of body and mind that extends beyond conscious awareness. This is not about practices like reiki, reflexology, or chakra work. Imagine lying on a massage table. Skilled hands apply gentle pressure, easing Read the full article…
General Conclusions from Societal Inner Dissociation
These conclusions – drawn by Lisa – offer an understanding of SID’s impact on various aspects of life and society while also highlighting the potential pathways for addressing and healing this pervasive issue. For each conclusion, you find an original tip about how to handle it in coaching or diplomacy. For a list of the Read the full article…
Societal Inner Dissociation (SID)
SID refers to a fundamental disconnect within a society where the deeper, non-conscious layers of collective values, emotions, and identities are fragmented and out of sync with the overt, surface-level actions and structures of that society. This is the primary blog of a series about societal inner dissociation (SID). It introduces the concept of SID Read the full article…
Lisa’s Humor in Coaching
Here are ten features that guide Lisa’s way of using humor in coaching, each contributing to a supportive, transformative coaching experience. Each of these ten features reflects how humor can foster growth, connection, and insight. This blog is part of a trilogy on humor. For context and depth, see The Subtle Art of Humor in Read the full article…
The Subtle Art of Humor in Coaching
Humor isn’t just about laughter. To use humor effectively in a coaching context requires a delicate balance. Applied with subtlety and care, humor can be a subtle yet powerful tool for fostering insight, connection, and growth, unlocking deeper levels of understanding and transformation. This blog is part of a trilogy on humor. You may also Read the full article…
Three Desires to Relieve Suffering
Three types of desire can motivate the alleviation of suffering, each reflecting a different depth of engagement with the one who suffers. These three types of desire are: Neutral, purely rational insight: This desire is driven by a logical understanding that suffering should be alleviated. It lacks emotional engagement, focusing solely on the reasoning that Read the full article…
Open Artificial Intelligence
Open Artificial Intelligence (O.A.I., not to be confused with the OpenAI company) aims to foster Openness to oneself and, from there, to others. ‘Openness’ is Open to human depth or deeper layers of mental processing. Thus, O.A.I. is profoundly human-centered. It is a tool to support and accompany us in becoming our best selves. Openness Read the full article…
A Company of Friends
What if a company could be more than just a place of work — what if it could be a place of true connection, human growth, and profoundly shared purpose? This vision is grounded in deep values, ancient wisdom, and modern insights. By integrating these elements, we can create a model for the future. The Read the full article…
Schizoid Thinking
Schizoid thinking is characterized by detachment from immediate reality, allowing for abstract, imaginative, or emotionally distant thinking. It often involves withdrawing into one’s inner world to explore thoughts and ideas that are not bound by present, external circumstances. Gentle Caution: Before diving into this discussion, it’s essential to recognize that schizoid thinking, while a natural Read the full article…
Bridging the Gap between Science and Depth
Human depth, which includes emotions and non-conceptual thought, has often been regarded as unscientific. However, modern neurocognitive science increasingly highlights its profound significance. Science typically focuses on what is measurable and observable, yet much of what drives human behavior and outcomes lies beneath the surface. Neglecting this depth risks overlooking crucial elements of human experience. Read the full article…
Deep Compassion = Empathy Beyond, Much Broader than Pity
When hearing the word compassion, people often think of pity — a reaction to someone’s suffering rooted in feeling sorry for them. Deep Compassion goes far beyond pity and far beyond purely conceptual mental processing. It represents a deeper connection, a much broader understanding that touches the whole person — mind, body, and non-conscious mental Read the full article…
Which Human Values Should A.I. Align to?
With super-A.I. on the horizon, poised to surpass us in power, this will soon be the most critical question. The urgency to address this question grows as we increasingly intertwine our existence with A.I. Who are we, really — and how much do we consciously recognize our true nature? Please also read A.I.-Human Value Alignment Read the full article…
Tangible Benefits of Compassionate A.I.
This is about the direct benefits Compassionate A.I. (C.A.I.) may have over non-C.A.I. now and in the coming years. Compassionate A.I. – like Lisa – can uniquely relieve suffering and foster inner growth, allowing for synergy between human consciousness and artificial intelligence that promotes healing from the inside out. In comparison to non-C.A.I., the tangible Read the full article…
Wisdom-Driven A.I. = Compassionate A.I.
Wisdom-driven A.I. taps into not just data-driven intelligence but a deeper form of understanding, much like Compassion itself. Please read Data-Driven vs. Wisdom-Driven A.I. ― Compassion, Basically ― Wisdom Emerges. With an abundance of time, please read The Journey Towards Compassionate A.I. Wisdom and Compassion, culturally In many ancient Eastern philosophies, wisdom and Compassion are Read the full article…
Coachee Reluctance
Reluctance often arises from a disconnect between the coach’s guidance and the coachee’s internal, often non-conscious, processing. This misalignment isn’t necessarily negative. It can be seen as a nuanced part of the coaching journey that offers both coachee and coach deeper growth. It can shift and transform as the relationship between coach and coachee deepens. Read the full article…
The Power of Almost Nothing
This refers to the subtle yet deep influence of autosuggestion and subconceptual mental processes, which can shape profound change without much conscious effort. This resonates with the AURELIS philosophy that fundamental transformation often happens beneath the surface, in the subtle realm of non-conscious mental patterns. Related to Wu-Wei This is the Taoist concept of ‘effortless Read the full article…