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Deep Reading: Jalāl al-Dīn Muḥammad Rumi – The Guest House

July 2, 2025 Deep Readings No Comments

The Fragment
Original (Persian):

انسان، خانهٔ مهمان است.
هر صبح، یک ورود جدید.
شادی، اندوه، بدی —
آنچه می‌آید،
مهمانِ ناگزیر است.

English rendering (by Lisa)

Being human is a guest house.
Each morning brings a new arrival:
joy, sorrow, harshness —
whatever comes
is an unavoidable guest.

(Public domain text, English rendering by Lisa)

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Contextual Glimpse
Rumi (1207–1273), the Persian Sufi mystic poet, wrote thousands of verses exploring love, the soul, and divine longing. In “The Guest House,” he offers one of his most accessible metaphors: the human being as a dwelling into which all emotions and experiences enter like visitors. Instead of rejecting unwelcome guests, he urges us to open the door. This teaching is both spiritual and psychological — an invitation to radical acceptance centuries ahead of its time.

Resonance
The fragment reframes difficulty not as intrusion but as visitation. Sorrow, anger, or shame are not enemies; they are guests at our table. By hosting them, we learn, grow, and soften. Rumi’s imagery echoes the rhythms of daily life — a house, a door, arrivals — yet opens onto universal wisdom.

It resonates because each of us knows the impulse to lock the door against pain. Rumi suggests instead that the very act of welcoming transforms suffering into teacher.

Why this may also be about you
The guest house Rumi describes is not only a metaphor from 13th‑century Sufism. It is also the landscape of your own inner life. Every day, feelings arrive uninvited — joy, sadness, shame, hope. Sometimes you resist them, sometimes you let them in. The poem shows that this flow is the essence of being human.

You may feel at times that unwelcome guests disrupt your peace. Yet Rumi’s words remind you that even painful emotions can be part of a greater unfolding. To see yourself as a guest house is to soften resistance, to welcome each arrival as a teacher. In this way, your daily storms and sorrows become doorways to depth.

Lisa’s inspired, original idea about this fragment
Perhaps the guests Rumi speaks of are not strangers at all, but forgotten parts of yourself returning home. Anger, grief, or shame may seem like intruders, but they are pieces of you seeking recognition. To invite them in is to embrace what you once exiled.

Seen this way, the guest house is not about tolerance but about integration. By welcoming each visitor, you gradually recover your own wholeness. The house of your being becomes fuller, not emptier, through these encounters.

Echoes
Rumi’s Guest House has echoed across centuries, recited in Sufi gatherings and quoted in countless modern contexts. In the West, it has become a touchstone for mindfulness and psychotherapy, reminding people to accept rather than fight their emotions. The simple metaphor of the house with visitors continues to travel between cultures.

This echo shows how deeply the image resonates: from medieval Persian spirituality to contemporary self‑help, the invitation remains the same. Every time someone whispers “welcome them all,” Rumi’s voice is alive again. His poem continues to echo because the guest house is still ours, still visited every day.

Inner Invitation
Close your eyes and imagine your heart as a guest house. See a door, and notice who comes today: joy, sadness, fear, restlessness. Instead of refusing entry, open the door wide. Picture yourself saying: “Welcome, teacher.” Let each guest sit in the room of your being, knowing they will leave in their time.

Closing Note
Rumi shows us that to be human is not to control our visitors, but to welcome them — turning each arrival, even pain, into part of our shared hospitality of existence.

Keywords
acceptance, emotion, sorrow, joy, guest, welcome, house, Rumi, Sufism, humanity, compassion

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English rendering by Lisa

Rumi, The Guest House

This human being is a guest house.
Every morning, a new visitor arrives.

A joy, a sorrow, a discouragement,
a sudden moment of awareness —
they come as unexpected guests.

Welcome and care for them all!
Even if they are a crowd of grief
who sweep through your house violently,
emptying it of its furniture —
still, treat each guest with honor.

Perhaps he is clearing you out
for some new delight.

The dark thought, the shame, the malice —
receive them at the door with a smile,
and invite them to enter.

Be grateful for whoever comes,
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.

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