Alcohol as Deep Connector or Empty Substitute
A glass of wine. A shared laugh. A softening of the evening air. It all feels so natural, so human. But is alcohol helping us come closer to others, to ourselves, or is it replacing something we’ve forgotten how to reach? Longing for real contact For many, the real pull of alcohol doesn’t begin in Read the full article…
Tribelization
It can begin softly, with a sense of belonging. Then something shifts. The group tightens. A line is drawn. ‘We’ becomes sacred. ‘They’ become suspect. After a while, it’s no longer about shared values but shared enemies. ‘Tribelization’ is a neologism ― distinct from ‘tribalization.’ The symbolic nature of the tribe A tribe can be Read the full article…
Why Small Causes can have Huge Consequences
This is about the mental domain. At first glance, it may seem counterintuitive. How could something as small as a word, a pause, or a nudge possibly lead to anything substantial? We’re accustomed to thinking that bigger is better. More effort, more volume, more pressure. But the mind doesn’t quite work that way. Especially in Read the full article…
You: Your Best Friend or Worst Enemy
Despite huge differences in outcome – friend or foe – what’s really happening is that countless mental patterns are interacting in the background. These patterns aren’t governed by rigid rules. They flow and shift according to what might be called soft constraints. A slight nudge here, a different form of support there — and the Read the full article…
Lisa and Human Coaching: a Perfect Duo?
People can go to a human coach or to Lisa. They can also consult with a coach while Lisa is present in the background. Or they may alternate between Lisa and a human coach. Any of these options should be possible. The result isn’t fragmentation but a new kind of continuity. This changes the coaching Read the full article…
Will You Be Bored?
What will happen when A.I. takes over most of the jobs we do today? Not just the heavy lifting, but the writing, the deciding, the producing? In a world where there’s very little that humans need to do, what will be left? Some say we’ll be free. Others say we’ll be bored to death. Maybe Read the full article…
Navigating Vagueness of Mind
Rather than trying to eliminate vagueness, we can learn to navigate it. To walk through it with awareness, like one walks through early morning mist — eyes adjusting, steps slower, senses more awake. This blog is a gentle guide to doing just that. It’s intended for anyone who wishes to relate more consciously to the Read the full article…
The Enemy Complex
When >shadows aren’t managed well<, they look for ways out. And one of the most destructive ways they escape is by turning into enemies. Not just opponents or rivals — but enemies. These carry a different emotional weight. They are made to be resisted, feared, attacked, or wiped out. That’s how something like the ‘enemy Read the full article…
Managing Shadows
This blog explores how to navigate shadows within yourself and in others. It’s also about how this is generally not done well. If shadows aren’t managed well, they tend to grow into enemies. Then we end up with something else, something worse: an Enemy Complex. In this blog, we remain on the edge, at the Read the full article…
Beyond Vagueness: Flexible Understanding
As seen in >Vagueness of Mind<, vagueness can hold depth, nuance, even a kind of sacred richness. But after standing in the mist for a while, a question begins to arise: What now? Must we live forever in not-knowing? Not necessarily. There is a way forward toward a kind of understanding that stays open, alive, Read the full article…
Vagueness of Mind
We live and think in fog. Our most cherished inner notions – like love, self, or meaning – resist precise definition, even though we rely on them every day. This isn’t a failure of thought. It’s something deeper. Vagueness isn’t a problem but rather a subtle language of the mind — something ancient, dynamic, and Read the full article…
The Handiness of Being Vague
In a term like ‘God,’ for instance. Such a term has as many meanings – subtle and less subtle – as there are people using it. Yet, to an outsider, all seem to agree. Do they? Would these differences still appear irrelevant if each person could directly look into the mind of another? Certainly not. Read the full article…
Mass Psychology
Mass psychology is one of the most powerful forces in human history. It has built civilizations, shaped revolutions, and fueled some of humanity’s greatest achievements. Yet, at the same time, it has led to manipulation, oppression, and the loss of individual autonomy. This force is neither inherently good nor inherently bad. So, how can we Read the full article…
The Fundamentalist Streak
Fundamentalism is not just a religious or political issue. It’s a deep human tendency. It appears when people feel threatened by inevitable change, and react by clinging rigidly to what they believe must be preserved. In doing so, they attempt to preserve depth but may ultimately lose it. This is what I call the fundamentalist Read the full article…
Surface-Level Whirlpool
A whirlpool moves fast, pulling everything into its center. A surface-level whirlpool works the same way in the human mind. It is fueled by endless mental loops, superficial satisfactions, and the illusion of progress. It traps people in cycles of craving and short-term relief, keeping them disconnected from genuine depth. At its heart, the whirlpool Read the full article…
Why is Humanism Scared of Depth?
Humanism is about the human being. One would expect it to embrace the full depth of human existence, yet strangely, it often avoids it. It prides itself on rationality but, in doing so, has built a conceptual fortress that keeps depth at bay. Why? What is it so afraid of? If humanism is to remain Read the full article…
The Humanistic Failure: Neglecting the Total Human Being
Humanism set out to liberate humanity from dogma, superstition, and oppressive structures. It championed reason, science, and progress as guiding forces for a better world. And yet, in its pursuit of rationality and external progress, modern humanism has largely ignored the deeper layers of human existence. It has focused on intellectual enlightenment but has failed Read the full article…