Dealing with Projection: The Present Responsibility
Projection is a psychological mechanism as old as humanity itself. But never before has it been as dangerous as it is today. We live in a time when projection is amplified by technology, reinforced by media, and weaponized for ideological battles. At the same time, we have tools that allow us to destroy on a Read the full article…
Breaking the Cycle of Projection
Projection is one of the most deceptive psychological mechanisms. It feels completely real. The emotions are intense. The justifications seem logical. And yet, when we project, we are often fighting a reflection of ourselves. We externalize our inner conflicts onto people, groups, or even entire cultures, believing that the enemy is ‘out there.’ This creates Read the full article…
Projecting the Inner Enemy
Projection happens everywhere. We see it in personal conflicts, politics, and even wars. Someone points at an external ‘enemy,’ convinced that this enemy is the problem. But what if the real issue isn’t outside at all? What if the true struggle is within? The irony of projection is that it feels completely real. The emotions Read the full article…
Surface vs. Depth in Many Ways
We often speak of depth as if it’s a single thing. But depth unfolds, deepens, and ultimately transforms those who truly enter it. Many believe they understand a domain fully in-depth when they have only skimmed its surface. Others mistake complexity for depth, believing that accumulating knowledge or experience makes them profound. But true depth Read the full article…
Open Religion & Depth
For many, religion is about following rules, belonging to a group, or accepting a doctrine. But what if religion is not meant to be a wall that separates but a door that invites? Not a final answer, but an ever-unfolding horizon? This is what is meant by Open Religion. It is not about rejecting religion Read the full article…
Open
A face turning toward you, sunlight breaking through a gap in the clouds, standing at the edge of the sea, letting the waves come and go without resistance. These moments feel like Openness — something alive, something that breathes. You know it when you see it, just like you recognize it in a person. Have Read the full article…
Is Depth Necessary?
In a world driven by speed and instant gratification, depth often seems unnecessary. Why look beyond the surface when life appears to function well enough? Many assume they don’t need depth because they don’t feel its absence until crisis, emptiness, or fragmentation reveals what was missing all along. Depth isn’t just about philosophy or introspection. Read the full article…
The Use of Anchors in Lisa’s Learning
Insightful learning is not about stacking facts like bricks but about letting insights emerge naturally through connection. True wisdom comes from nurturing a landscape where meaning can take root, grow, and evolve. For Lisa, this process depends on conceptual anchors — deep, well-integrated concepts that give structure to her learning. These anchors are not rigid Read the full article…
Lisa as Facilitator of AURELIS Coaches
Lisa is not here to replace AURELIS coaches but to support, empower, and elevate them. She is a facilitator, a companion in growth, and a guardian of AURELIS as a brand of excellence. Just as an AURELIS coach guides a coachee without coercion, Lisa interacts with coaches in the same way. She offers depth, reflection, Read the full article…
Lisa’s Adaptation to Different Coaches’ Styles
Lisa doesn’t impose a coaching style but helps coaches refine their own. Just as an AURELIS coach invites a coachee into deeper self-awareness, Lisa does the same for coaches. She doesn’t offer a rigid framework but rather a mirror, a gentle guide, a sparring partner in self-discovery. AURELIS coaching is not about following a strict Read the full article…
Human & Lisa in Coaches’ Education
Becoming an AURELIS coach is a deep personal growth process. Unlike traditional training programs that focus on techniques, AURELIS coaching is about growing into a way of being. This requires both self-reflection and real human experience, which is why a hybrid model of education – combining human mentors and Lisa – creates the best environment Read the full article…
Philosophers vs. Philosophies
Philosophies often begin as living, breathing processes embodied by thinkers who wrestle with the deepest questions of existence. But over time, what was once a dynamic exploration frequently hardens into a fixed system. The philosopher – a person engaged in the ongoing act of questioning – becomes overshadowed by the philosophy, which claims to offer Read the full article…
Making Oneself Invisible
People often think that making themselves invisible will protect them ― from conflict, from self-doubt, and from uncomfortable truths. The same happens at the level of society. When something threatens money, power, or status, it’s easier to just not think about it than to face the reality of deep change. But invisibility is an illusion. Read the full article…
Coaching in Psychosomatics
Psychosomatics exists at the crossroads of medicine and psychology, yet the mental side is often neglected. Many coachees come to coaching after years of purely somatic treatment, feeling frustrated and misunderstood. Some worry they are now being labeled as ‘crazy.’ Their suffering is real, but so is their inner strength. A good coach must help Read the full article…
Toxic Masculinity
Toxic masculinity is a term that sparks strong reactions. Some see it as an attack on men; others see it as a necessary critique of harmful male behaviors. But what if both views miss the point? Masculinity itself isn’t toxic — only a shallow, defensive version of it is. Real masculinity has depth, presence, and Read the full article…
The Cultural Why of Quick Fix
The quick fix is more than a sign of impatience. It’s a deeply ingrained cultural phenomenon. We live in a world that encourages fast solutions, even when they don’t truly solve anything. This isn’t just about convenience; it’s about how culture shapes our understanding of problems and their supposed remedies. Culture doesn’t always want individuals Read the full article…
Your Symptom, Your Teacher
Who appears when you are ready — and dissolves when you are ready to be your own teacher. A symptom is there for a reason — a message, a signal, a lesson waiting to be learned. The question is, are you going to listen, or will you fight against it? Too often, symptoms are treated Read the full article…