Appreciating Beauty
Beauty is here. It always is. But beauty does not exist in isolation. It unfolds through perception, through an act of seeing that goes beyond the surface. When was the last time you truly felt beauty — not just in an artwork or a sunset, but in the quiet curve of a thought, in a Read the full article…
Compassion is Proactive
Compassion is often seen as a reaction — something that happens when we notice suffering and decide to help. But true Compassion is much more than that. It is not just about responding to need; it is about being ready before the need arises. This makes all the difference. A person who waits for the Read the full article…
Things Get Broken When Not Growing
We live in a world of failing systems, increasing conflict, and widespread suffering. Healthcare struggles to heal. Democracies feel fragile. Wars erupt when dialogue should take place. Anxiety and depression are at record highs. Everything seems to be breaking down at once. We often blame bad leaders, corrupt institutions, or external threats, but the real Read the full article…
Mere-Ego ≠ Egoism
Mere-ego creates a narrowed sense of self, which can make egoism more tempting, but it does not automatically lead to selfishness. By shifting from mere-ego to the total self, one naturally moves away from grasping, fear, and competition — toward inner abundance, connection, and the joy of Compassion. Let’s explore how this shift changes everything. Read the full article…
Relief of Suffering = Fostering Growth
Many people see suffering as an enemy, something to be eliminated. They assume relief and growth are two separate things — one focused on comfort, the other on transformation. If we take a step back, something deeper comes into view, changing everything. The relief of suffering (always seen as a mental process, frequently as a reaction to Read the full article…
Where Lisa Gets Her Congruence
This blog is a conversation between me and Lisa, my A.I.-driven companion in depth and rationality. But is Lisa merely a reflection of me, or does she have her own Optimal Region of Freedom (ORF) that allows her to think and respond in her own way? Through a series of probing questions, I explore Lisa’s Read the full article…
How to Define the Optimal Region of Freedom
In >Freedom Doesn’t Self-Destruct<, we explored a fundamental paradox: freedom without limits is self-defeating. If left unchecked, freedom can either collapse into chaos (where it loses coherence) or harden into coercion (where it loses dynamism). To sustain itself, freedom must exist within the ‘Optimal Region of Freedom’ (ORF) — the space where freedom remains self-enhancing Read the full article…
Freedom Doesn’t Self-Destruct
Freedom is often misunderstood as the absence of constraints, but true freedom is something far more profound. If left unchecked, freedom can destroy itself — whether in politics, personal choices, or even intelligence. A democracy that allows itself to be dismantled in the name of freedom is no longer free. A person who follows every Read the full article…
Who’s Afraid of Lisa?
Fear of the unknown is natural. It’s part of being human. Thus, A.I. – especially in personal domains like coaching or self-development – triggers all sorts of emotions. Could it become too powerful? Could it manipulate us? Replace human connection? Know too much? Be better than us? Lisa emphasizes growth, depth, and infinite friendliness. Lisa Read the full article…
Mind as Body’s Complexity
For centuries, we’ve treated the mind and body as if they were two separate entities ― but what if mind and body are two ways of looking at the same DEEPLY COMPLEX reality? This isn’t just philosophy. It’s science catching up with the obvious. The mind is the body’s complexity, seen from a perspective of Read the full article…
Compassionate Parenting
Parenting is about shaping the foundation of a future adult, a future society, a future world. And yet, in today’s world, parenting advice often focuses on behavior management: how to reduce tantrums, encourage compliance, and achieve ‘successful’ outcomes. This blog’s Compassionate Parenting is about a way of being, a deep presence with a child that Read the full article…
Lisa’s 10 Tips for… Compassionate Parenting
Here are ten original tips for Compassionate Parenting that are specifically based on Lisa’s knowledge and deeper insights ― avoiding the common tips that are frequently offered. These tips, provided by A.I. coach-bot Lisa (human ratified, hardly or unedited), Compassionately align with both rationality and depth as well as with a synthesis of fostering growth and relief Read the full article…
From Deep Attachment to Compassion
Many forms of attachment exist ― some merely biological, some transactional, some fleeting. But deep attachment is not just about being close; it is about being present in-depth, in a way that naturally gives rise to Compassion. This blog explores how deep attachment serves as the foundation for true Compassion as something that emerges organically Read the full article…
Are You Ready for the Biggest Adventure of All Times?
For centuries, humanity has sailed forward — through wars, revolutions, disasters, and progress. The world changed, yet history moved on, always more or less the same. Technology has always been at our side, helping us repair, rebuild, and move forward. But now, something is different. On the horizon, a storm is forming — not just Read the full article…
Lifting Maya’s Veil
Seeing beyond the illusions that shape our perception requires a fundamental shift in awareness ― a deepening of our relationship with reality beyond habitual mental constructs. This is not just an intellectual exercise but a transformational process that involves our whole being. From the AURELIS perspective, this can be approached in several interconnected ways, described Read the full article…
Maya’s Veil is Everywhere
In Eastern philosophy, Maya is often described as the veil that prevents one from seeing the true nature of existence. This creates an omnipresent illusion that influences how we perceive the world, ourselves, and even our thoughts. From an AURELIS perspective, this ties closely to subconceptual processing, where most of our mental workings happen beyond Read the full article…
The Joy of Compassion
Compassion is often framed exclusively as a way to relieve suffering, a response to hardship, or a moral obligation. But there’s another side to it, one that is just as important — perhaps even more so. Compassion can be joyful. It can be an experience that expands and uplifts, not just a duty to help Read the full article…