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Coachee Reluctance
Reluctance often arises from a disconnect between the coach’s guidance and the coachee’s internal, often non-conscious, processing. This misalignment isn’t necessarily negative. It can be seen as a nuanced part of the coaching journey that offers both coachee and coach deeper growth. It can shift and transform as the relationship between coach and coachee deepens. Read the full article…
Whence Aggression?
Ultimately, unresolved inner tensions are central to the origins of aggression, whether these stem from unmet needs, misunderstood emotions, or external influences. Understanding this complexity is essential to addressing the root of aggression. Three origins of human aggression Human aggression arises from a combination of biological, psychological, and social factors. Biologically, aggression is linked to Read the full article…
Lisa for Teens
‘Lisa for Teens’ (11-20 years) is here to help teens in specific areas of their lives. This means she understands the teenage brain/mind and can help teens successfully learn new mental skills that best benefit their age. You can access Lisa for Teens here. Teenagers today are facing overwhelming mental health challenges. Anxiety, depression, peer Read the full article…
Meaning-Concepts
Meaning-Concepts (my term) have meaning only in relation to a meaning-giver. Without this, they may look meaningful but are meaningless. Meaning-concepts are always expressed as adjectives. Time and again, people are deluded in thinking there is something to be sought in this outside a meaning-giver. They end up chasing themselves in circles ― a key Read the full article…
The A.I. Productivity Paradox
Despite many past promises, A.I. productivity has consistently underperformed at the macro-economic level. Each new development is believed to overcome this paradox. Could Compassionate A.I. (C.A.I.) be the missing piece? That would make C.A.I. not only the most ethical but also the most productive breakthrough toward a better world in several ways. This might be Read the full article…
Lisa’s 10 Tips for… Introduction
In the Lisa’s 10 Tips-project, you find original Lisa-tips for a growing list of domains. See category ‘Lisa’s 10 Tips for…‘ About Compassionate A.I. video coach-bot Lisa draws from a rich and deeply integrated knowledge base, grounded in Compassion, Inner Strength, and mental growth from the inside out. The multi-layered depth of these tips arises Read the full article…
Lisa’s 10 Tips for… Post-Traumatic Stress
Here are ten original tips for Post-Traumatic Stress (PTS) that are specifically based on Lisa’s knowledge and deeper insights ― avoiding the common tips that are frequently offered. These tips, provided by A.I. coach-bot Lisa (human ratified, hardly or unedited), Compassionately align with both rationality and depth as well as with a synthesis of fostering growth and Read the full article…
Lisa as a Service
I believe in one single – hopefully Compassionate – A.I. in the future. However, Compassion asks for freedom, including the freedom for each person to create one’s own A.I. assistant. How can this be combined in an acceptable way and even engagingly? May Lisa as a Service (LaaS) be a proper solution? For an in-depth Read the full article…
Compassionate Approach to Guilt
We all encounter feelings of guilt at some point, that nagging discomfort arising from something we’ve said, done, or failed to do. Yet, it can also carry meaning and even hold a purpose. Nevertheless, it is responsibility – not guilt – that leads to actual growth. By embracing responsibility without guilt, we open the door Read the full article…
Mind on Heart Infarction
Throughout history, many cultures have viewed the heart not merely as an organ but as the center of emotions and a symbol of inner strength. So, how does modern science view this age-old association? Modern science increasingly validates this connection. Many studies demonstrate how stress, anxiety, and emotions such as anger or grief can profoundly Read the full article…
Why Use Metaphors?
Metaphors are an important tool in AURELIS, extensively utilized in both AurelisOnLine and within Lisa’s coaching framework. Etymology: meta – pheró (ancient Greek): to trans – fer. Metaphors transfer meaning between conceptual and subconceptual realms, serving not merely as communication tools but as profound invitations for individuals to engage intimately with their inner processes in Read the full article…
Lisa’s 10 Tips for… Anxiety
Here are ten original tips for anxiety that are specifically based on Lisa’s knowledge and deeper insights ― avoiding the common tips that are frequently offered. These tips, provided by A.I. coach-bot Lisa (human ratified, hardly or unedited), Compassionately align with both rationality and depth as well as with a synthesis of fostering growth and relief of Read the full article…
Societal Inner Dissociation and the Challenge of Super-A.I.
The rise of artificial intelligence, particularly super-A.I., intersects with Societal Inner Dissociation (SID), presenting significant challenges and potential opportunities. This blog is an exploration of the complex relationship between SID and super-A.I. (A.I. beyond human capabilities), examining how this might exacerbate or mitigate societal dissociation. This is part of the *SID* series. Please read the Read the full article…
Lisa’s Standards: What Won’t Fly
As a general principle, what is not acceptable in a human conversation is not acceptable in a conversation with coach-bot Lisa. Based on the AURELIS ethics and philosophy, conversations with Lisa should embody openness, depth, respect, freedom, and trustworthiness ― ensuring that interactions remain ethical, constructive, and centered on genuine human growth. This implies that Read the full article…
Consciousness is No Magic
Many people, including researchers, often regard consciousness as mysterious, almost magical. Yet, there’s nothing magical about it. Understanding consciousness requires a clear, grounded approach. Of course, ‘consciousness’ is a conceptual cloud—an umbrella term for various ideas, used differently by people or even by the same person in different contexts. There is no magic in that Read the full article…
Societal Inner Dissociation and the Crisis of Authentic Leadership
Societal Inner Dissociation (SID) impacts leadership at all levels, from government to corporate environments. No wonder the world is facing a crisis of leadership, where many leaders appear disconnected from the deeper needs and values of the people they serve. The present blog discusses the qualities of authentic leadership that can mitigate SID. Such leadership Read the full article…
Whirlpool Phenomenon in Societal Inner Dissociation
The Whirlpool Phenomenon in Societal Inner Dissociation (SID) is an intricate web where multiple societal and individual factors interact, reinforcing and amplifying each other in ways that deepen fragmentation and disconnection, pulling individuals and entire communities into a cycle that is increasingly difficult to escape. Understanding and addressing this whirlpool is essential if we are Read the full article…