You: Your Best Friend or Worst Enemy
Despite huge differences in outcome – friend or foe – what’s really happening is that countless mental patterns are interacting in the background. These patterns aren’t governed by rigid rules. They flow and shift according to what might be called soft constraints. A slight nudge here, a different form of support there — and the Read the full article…
Lisa and Human Coaching: a Perfect Duo?
People can go to a human coach or to Lisa. They can also consult with a coach while Lisa is present in the background. Or they may alternate between Lisa and a human coach. Any of these options should be possible. The result isn’t fragmentation but a new kind of continuity. This changes the coaching Read the full article…
Will You Be Bored?
What will happen when A.I. takes over most of the jobs we do today? Not just the heavy lifting, but the writing, the deciding, the producing? In a world where there’s very little that humans need to do, what will be left? Some say we’ll be free. Others say we’ll be bored to death. Maybe Read the full article…
Navigating Vagueness of Mind
Rather than trying to eliminate vagueness, we can learn to navigate it. To walk through it with awareness, like one walks through early morning mist — eyes adjusting, steps slower, senses more awake. This blog is a gentle guide to doing just that. It’s intended for anyone who wishes to relate more consciously to the Read the full article…
The Enemy Complex
When >shadows aren’t managed well<, they look for ways out. And one of the most destructive ways they escape is by turning into enemies. Not just opponents or rivals — but enemies. These carry a different emotional weight. They are made to be resisted, feared, attacked, or wiped out. That’s how something like the ‘enemy Read the full article…
Managing Shadows
This blog explores how to navigate shadows within yourself and in others. It’s also about how this is generally not done well. If shadows aren’t managed well, they tend to grow into enemies. Then we end up with something else, something worse: an Enemy Complex. In this blog, we remain on the edge, at the Read the full article…
Beyond Vagueness: Flexible Understanding
As seen in >Vagueness of Mind<, vagueness can hold depth, nuance, even a kind of sacred richness. But after standing in the mist for a while, a question begins to arise: What now? Must we live forever in not-knowing? Not necessarily. There is a way forward toward a kind of understanding that stays open, alive, Read the full article…
Vagueness of Mind
We live and think in fog. Our most cherished inner notions – like love, self, or meaning – resist precise definition, even though we rely on them every day. This isn’t a failure of thought. It’s something deeper. Vagueness isn’t a problem but rather a subtle language of the mind — something ancient, dynamic, and Read the full article…
The Handiness of Being Vague
In a term like ‘God,’ for instance. Such a term has as many meanings – subtle and less subtle – as there are people using it. Yet, to an outsider, all seem to agree. Do they? Would these differences still appear irrelevant if each person could directly look into the mind of another? Certainly not. Read the full article…
Mass Psychology
Mass psychology is one of the most powerful forces in human history. It has built civilizations, shaped revolutions, and fueled some of humanity’s greatest achievements. Yet, at the same time, it has led to manipulation, oppression, and the loss of individual autonomy. This force is neither inherently good nor inherently bad. So, how can we Read the full article…
The Fundamentalist Streak
Fundamentalism is not just a religious or political issue. It’s a deep human tendency. It appears when people feel threatened by inevitable change, and react by clinging rigidly to what they believe must be preserved. In doing so, they attempt to preserve depth but may ultimately lose it. This is what I call the fundamentalist Read the full article…
Surface-Level Whirlpool
A whirlpool moves fast, pulling everything into its center. A surface-level whirlpool works the same way in the human mind. It is fueled by endless mental loops, superficial satisfactions, and the illusion of progress. It traps people in cycles of craving and short-term relief, keeping them disconnected from genuine depth. At its heart, the whirlpool Read the full article…
Why is Humanism Scared of Depth?
Humanism is about the human being. One would expect it to embrace the full depth of human existence, yet strangely, it often avoids it. It prides itself on rationality but, in doing so, has built a conceptual fortress that keeps depth at bay. Why? What is it so afraid of? If humanism is to remain Read the full article…
The Humanistic Failure: Neglecting the Total Human Being
Humanism set out to liberate humanity from dogma, superstition, and oppressive structures. It championed reason, science, and progress as guiding forces for a better world. And yet, in its pursuit of rationality and external progress, modern humanism has largely ignored the deeper layers of human existence. It has focused on intellectual enlightenment but has failed Read the full article…
Dealing with Projection: The Present Responsibility
Projection is a psychological mechanism as old as humanity itself. But never before has it been as dangerous as it is today. We live in a time when projection is amplified by technology, reinforced by media, and weaponized for ideological battles. At the same time, we have tools that allow us to destroy on a Read the full article…
Breaking the Cycle of Projection
Projection is one of the most deceptive psychological mechanisms. It feels completely real. The emotions are intense. The justifications seem logical. And yet, when we project, we are often fighting a reflection of ourselves. We externalize our inner conflicts onto people, groups, or even entire cultures, believing that the enemy is ‘out there.’ This creates Read the full article…
Projecting the Inner Enemy
Projection happens everywhere. We see it in personal conflicts, politics, and even wars. Someone points at an external ‘enemy,’ convinced that this enemy is the problem. But what if the real issue isn’t outside at all? What if the true struggle is within? The irony of projection is that it feels completely real. The emotions Read the full article…