
Do Not Follow Your Opponent
One might assume that following an opponent means agreeing with him. But you can also follow someone in opposition — by constantly reacting to him, adjusting to his stance, or defining yourself through resistance rather than through your own vision. True leadership is about holding your line, leading the conversation rather than being led by Read the full article…

Why Discussion Sucks
Have you ever won a discussion? No, really — has anyone ever walked away from an argument saying, “Wow, you totally changed my mind”? Be honest. Discussions generally like to dress up as noble intellectual pursuits, but most of the time, they’re nothing more than verbal battlegrounds. Instead of inviting insight, they create division. Instead Read the full article…

Are You Allergic?
Allergies are usually seen as simple immune system errors — an overreaction to harmless substances like pollen, dust, or certain foods. But what if an allergy is also about your mind, your emotions, and the way you interact with the world? From an AURELIS perspective, allergies may be more than just physical reactions. They can Read the full article…

Lisa’s Art
The blog >Art (an AURELIS viewpoint)< explored the idea that true art is not merely a product but a process — an unfolding from the inside out. Art is completed when it resonates with the observer, inviting inner depth to emerge. So, what if an A.I. engages with art in this way? Can something artificial Read the full article…

Art (an AURELIS Viewpoint)
Art is often mistaken for a skillful arrangement of colors or a familiar aesthetic that soothes or impresses. But true art is not a trick of technique. True art grows — from the inside out. It invites, resonates, and moves something deep within the observer. This is where AURELIS and art meet: in the realm Read the full article…

Wanted: Humility in an Age of Super-A.I.
Super-A.I. is coming, whether we are ready or not. Many believe our greatest challenge is to keep it under control, to ensure it serves us rather than the other way around. But this way of thinking is already a trap of mere-ego — the illusion that we can dominate something that will outthink us at Read the full article…

Confabulatory A.I.
There is a significant chance that confabulatory A.I. will be the usual A.I. of the future ― not because they are intentionally designed that way (hopefully) but because confabulation is embedded in how intelligence operates in machines and humans. Generative A.I. generates plausible responses based on patterns, just like human memory reconstructs events rather than Read the full article…

Is Your Bladder Overactive?
Overactive bladder (OAB) is usually discussed as a physical problem — a matter of muscles, nerves, and hormones. While these factors are real, they don’t tell the whole story. The bladder is part of a complex system that involves emotion, non-conscious patterning, and learned behaviors. If you’ve ever wondered why your bladder seems to have Read the full article…

How to Communicate Human Depth
In a world that often values quick answers and surface-level logic, depth can be difficult to communicate — especially to those who haven’t actively explored it. Yet, human depth is real, substantial, and present in every aspect of our lives. It shapes how we think, feel, connect, and even heal. The challenge is twofold. First, Read the full article…

Depth Needs Breadth
Many believe that depth in intelligence – whether in humans or A.I. – is just a matter of going further into one or a few domains. But true depth arises from integrating across a broad foundation. Without the right kind of breadth, depth cannot fully emerge. In both human intelligence and A.I., depth is not Read the full article…

Appreciating Beauty
Beauty is here. It always is. But beauty does not exist in isolation. It unfolds through perception, through an act of seeing that goes beyond the surface. When was the last time you truly felt beauty — not just in an artwork or a sunset, but in the quiet curve of a thought, in a Read the full article…

Compassion is Proactive
Compassion is often seen as a reaction — something that happens when we notice suffering and decide to help. But true Compassion is much more than that. It is not just about responding to need; it is about being ready before the need arises. This makes all the difference. A person who waits for the Read the full article…

Things Get Broken When Not Growing
We live in a world of failing systems, increasing conflict, and widespread suffering. Healthcare struggles to heal. Democracies feel fragile. Wars erupt when dialogue should take place. Anxiety and depression are at record highs. Everything seems to be breaking down at once. We often blame bad leaders, corrupt institutions, or external threats, but the real Read the full article…

Mere-Ego ≠ Egoism
Mere-ego creates a narrowed sense of self, which can make egoism more tempting, but it does not automatically lead to selfishness. By shifting from mere-ego to the total self, one naturally moves away from grasping, fear, and competition — toward inner abundance, connection, and the joy of Compassion. Let’s explore how this shift changes everything. Read the full article…

Relief of Suffering = Fostering Growth
Many people see suffering as an enemy, something to be eliminated. They assume relief and growth are two separate things — one focused on comfort, the other on transformation. If we take a step back, something deeper comes into view, changing everything. The relief of suffering (always seen as a mental process, frequently as a reaction to Read the full article…

Where Lisa Gets Her Congruence
This blog is a conversation between me and Lisa, my A.I.-driven companion in depth and rationality. But is Lisa merely a reflection of me, or does she have her own Optimal Region of Freedom (ORF) that allows her to think and respond in her own way? Through a series of probing questions, I explore Lisa’s Read the full article…

How to Define the Optimal Region of Freedom
In >Freedom Doesn’t Self-Destruct<, we explored a fundamental paradox: freedom without limits is self-defeating. If left unchecked, freedom can either collapse into chaos (where it loses coherence) or harden into coercion (where it loses dynamism). To sustain itself, freedom must exist within the ‘Optimal Region of Freedom’ (ORF) — the space where freedom remains self-enhancing Read the full article…