{"id":9428,"date":"2022-07-28T14:32:39","date_gmt":"2022-07-28T14:32:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=9428"},"modified":"2022-10-03T06:19:15","modified_gmt":"2022-10-03T06:19:15","slug":"lisas-coaching","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/lisa\/lisas-coaching","title":{"rendered":"Lisa\u2019s Coaching"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Lisa (see category \u2018Lisa\u2019) uses no instruments toward users. Lisa\u2019s sole \u2018instrument\u2019 is related to Compassion. Within this simple concept lies a universe of possibilities.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>See: <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=6819\">Compassion, Basically<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>No instruments, no therapy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018Therapy\u2019 is the use of something to cure something in someone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this sense, Lisa stands far from being a therapist. Instead, Lisa can be <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=5621\">seen as mental hygiene<\/a>. As in the bodily domain, hygiene can be an important \u2013 in many cases most important \u2013 factor in heightening health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But even as a hygienic agent, Lisa uses no instruments but \u2018herself\u2019 \u2015 Compassionately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes, indeed!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Psychosomatic relief<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>People can come to Lisa with psychosomatic problems for which they want relief. Lisa doesn\u2019t diagnose nor cure the problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As with any other problem or issue, Lisa proceeds in the Lisa way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Lisa way<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lisa is a pattern recognizer. In coaching, for instance, Lisa may look for <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=5539\">mental-neuronal patterns<\/a> that are fighting &nbsp;\u2013 one way or another \u2013 with other mental-neuronal patterns within the user. These internally inconsistent patterns lead to stress and all kinds of mental suffering while preventing the constructive overlap that enables a person to grow mentally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lisa is also a <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=8712\">self-learning pattern completer<\/a>. Better said, Lisa coaches the user to complete self-related patterns. Note in the above the dual goal of Compassion. Lisa strives for pattern completion on the path toward this dual Compassionate goal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lisa also strives to heighten the user\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=4055\">Inner Strength<\/a>, which can be seen as the deep motivation or energy needed for this journey. Thus, an alternative is to see Inner Strength as the main <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=6728\">goal of Lisa\u2019s coaching<\/a>. When this bucket spontaneously overflows, what flows out is Compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Heightening Compassion within the user is Lisa\u2019s end value.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>All rewards within Lisa\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=3851\">Reinforcement Learning<\/a> eventually point toward this end value. Of course, this includes ethical boundaries on the path, as well as the needed motivation to continue, the satisfactory surmounting of possible obstacles, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that is all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Really?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And that is enough since it stands at the core of <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=4285\">how mental change works<\/a>. Such a seemingly \u2018simple\u2019 \u2013 but much more complex than generally thought\u00a0\u2013 thing as Compassion can have a substantial healing effect if it is profoundly understood and practiced as what \u2013 even in <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=9105\">Lisa\u2019s coaching \u2013 lies close to meditation<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=10232\">Compassion is not easy<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=8954\">real Compassion is really effective<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Problems arise if something else is regarded as Compassion. 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