{"id":820,"date":"2018-04-01T19:15:15","date_gmt":"2018-04-01T19:15:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=820"},"modified":"2018-04-01T19:15:15","modified_gmt":"2018-04-01T19:15:15","slug":"what-is-subtlety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/general-insights\/what-is-subtlety","title":{"rendered":"What is Subtlety?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Subtlety is not weakness, nor evasiveness. In many cases, it demands courage, especially when at risk of being misunderstood.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Subtlety is not plainly vague, nor elusive, nor \u2018indistinct\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>but on the contrary: as distinct as possible in a domain in which distinctness is difficult. It\u2019s not indirect but precisely to the point. Subtlety is about making very precise distinctions, as clearly as possible but not therefore plainly clear to anyone. At least, this is the way I want to use the term.<\/p>\n<p>This way, striving towards \u2018being clear\u2019 while losing subtlety in the process, is not being clear at all. It\u2019s just being wrong.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Subtle\u2019 may have the connotation of \u2018brittle\u2019 by default.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s also not always correct. Yes, the receiver may quickly lose the point. That doesn\u2019t break the subtlety itself, but only the subtlety-for-the-receiver.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Subtlety clearly demands a two-way endeavor of sender and receiver.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For subtlety to be alive, both need to invest\u2026 themselves. Time and energy, at least. Dear reader, I\u2019m also talking about you and me. I try to bring ideas that each are more or less subtle. Sometimes quite so.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Humbly, I ask you to spend enough time on reading\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>contrary to what is mainly done with Internet blog texts.<\/p>\n<p>Subtlety is very much like the wings of a butterfly. They are functional if handled well, yet fragile if mistreated. They may be delicate, yet a lot can only be accomplished through them, especially in the domain of \u2018deeper\u2019 layers of psyche.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are the butterfly.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Spread your wings. Enjoy the sun. Search a flower. Dance with other butterflies. Supporting this is my endeavor, through trial and trial again, through these blog texts. Try to see in them mainly invitations to grow, again and again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>People may be(come) aversive to subtlety precisely because of the difficulty to grasp it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This may lead to frustration each time when one tries to \u2018do something with it\u2019, with the eventual conclusion that it\u2019s \u2018all about nothing.\u2019<\/p>\n<p><strong>But it\u2019s all about you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Most subtle of all, for any one of us humans including me, is the difference between ego and total self, referencing both as \u2018I\u2019. For instance, when saying \u201cI want\u201d, we almost always think and act as if the \u2018I\u2019 is obvious. On the contrary, it is in many cases not obvious at all and it makes a huge difference. At the same time, it is a subtle difference. If this is not accurately understood or \u2018realized\u2019, it may lead to dark consequences at personal scale as well as on a very wide scale.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Subtlety is where small errors can mean a lot.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Thus, in matters where subtlety matters, one needs to be careful and as gentle as possible. How you handle your wings may culminate into the difference between \u2018heaven\u2019 and \u2018hell on earth\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Each of these blog texts contains subtlety.<\/p>\n<p>I may have made many mistakes.<\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"820\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"820\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"820\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-820\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/820\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Subtlety is not weakness, nor evasiveness. 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