{"id":7713,"date":"2021-08-01T11:51:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-01T11:51:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=7713"},"modified":"2021-09-19T11:54:31","modified_gmt":"2021-09-19T11:54:31","slug":"somatisation-and-de-somatisation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/healthcare\/somatisation-and-de-somatisation","title":{"rendered":"Somatisation and De-Somatisation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>The movement from that which shows itself somatically to the same that now shows itself mentally.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>People can \u2018feel with their bodies\u2019 = somatization.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This also means that if (physical) symptoms are loosened, people may become aware of feelings more psychologically.&nbsp; This gives the impression that these feelings are appearing only now, but they were already present, albeit in a \u2018solidified state.\u2019&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You may encounter this during an AURELIS coaching session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Somatization may have been a kind of protection against intense, deep feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>De-somatization<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The outward migration of these feelings is sometimes called \u2018going into process.\u2019&nbsp;The person becomes visibly intensely emotional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I like to call it de-somatization because this term shows that at least this negative situation is already being clarified.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Some tips to deal with this<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a coach:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Make sure in advance that you already have an excellent bond. This gives you much more control over what happens.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Don\u2019t argue with it.&nbsp;Let it come for a while, and then lead it nicely in the right direction.&nbsp;This movement is \u2018normal\u2019&nbsp;<em>because&nbsp;<\/em>you make it normal.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Provide a quiet environment: both the physical and, as far as possible, the emotional. One emotional issue at a time is enough.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Show deep attention (\u201cI\u2019m here for you.\u201d).&nbsp;Avoid superficial attention (\u201cOh my god, it\u2019s so bad!\u201d).&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Show that you appreciate this process, that you are OK with this happening, and that you will make the best of it together.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Make sure you\u2019re able to make the best of it. \u2018Going in process\u2019 is actually going through a door. Actually, as an AURELIS coach, you have to be there when the person is at the door. You have to be there when the person goes through the door.&nbsp; And above all, you have to be there in advance on the other side to receive that person. This has a lot to do with perception, but it is therefore no less important.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Self-control<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The self-control of a stone<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>is not that of a human being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The \u2018control\u2019 of emotions<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>has only one goal:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>freedom for emotion.<br><\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"7713\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7713\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"7713\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"7713\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-7713\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7713\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The movement from that which shows itself somatically to the same that now shows itself mentally. 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