Oh, dear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The flower bud that absolutely wants to be an open flower, but cannot let go of the top of the flower bud.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Oh, dear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This tension can grow very high.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2018h3ere\u2019 trying to be \u2018there,\u2019 and at the same time trying to take \u2018here\u2019 with you, can tear you apart inside. Enormous frustration then can turn into anger, sometimes directed against the one who shows the \u2018open flower\u2019 or even more: who shows that this is the natural goal of every human being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n People can even become conditioned by frustrations to see the whole domain of \u2018there\u2019 as the cause of that frustration. This is not necessarily conscious, but that is precisely why it is often difficult to recognize and grasp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So a lot of resistance, like glue with which one sticks to \u2018here.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The more frustration there is, the more effort someone makes to YET get \u2018there\u2019\u2026 without leaving \u2018here.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n Comments:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI\u2019m doing all I can in the world.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThen just tell me what to do\u2026 in words of \u2018here.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n until:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThis frustration is intentionally <\/em>inflicted on me .\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Or:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt\u2019s impossible. I don\u2019t see others doing it either.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIt is only for enlightened minds, but not for mere mortals like me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cI don\u2019t want to have anything to do with it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n You should especially make it clear to someone you find in such a condition to NOT make an effort\u2026 in this way.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, the paradox for such a person is that progress can only be made by taking a step back and then reaching an insight through some more overview.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Namely: \u2018I\u2019 am not doing this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A top-of-flower-bud can never become an open flower itself.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n It can only transcend into it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This requires humility and infinite patience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Like Sleeping Beauty.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Fairy tales, too, aim to teach lessons and speak directly to the total <\/em>person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Fortunately, ‘100 years of sleep\u2019 in this fairy tale is only meant symbolically, namely symbolic or \u2018infinite\u2019 patience. Sleeping Beauty is probably sleeping because she lets her conceptual awareness get in the way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What ultimately awakens her as a total person is a kiss of love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Nice, isn\u2019t it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anyway, translated into some usual chatter:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone can get frustrated because sessions apparently don\u2019t work well (anymore).<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The problem with this, of course, is that AURELIS sessions aren\u2019t meant to work from the start. This is by no means easy to understand deeply<\/em>\u2026 without humility and infinite patience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As a coach, it is especially important to guide the coachee in understanding these two concepts. They are apparently quite philosophical. However, they are very deeply human and alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Which means:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Humility and infinite patience \u2018work\u2019 (yes, in this case) not by understanding them, but by living them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n They can make a difference like night and day in someone\u2019s life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n One has to be like a Sleeping Beauty to really wake up, touched by the most profound thing that exists.<\/p>\n