{"id":5672,"date":"2021-04-25T07:08:51","date_gmt":"2021-04-25T07:08:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=5672"},"modified":"2021-04-25T07:21:59","modified_gmt":"2021-04-25T07:21:59","slug":"being-vulnerable","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/sociocultural-issues\/being-vulnerable","title":{"rendered":"Daring to Be Vulnerable"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Daring to be vulnerable while striving to be as strong as possible is more worthwhile than just showing to be vulnerable.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Being vulnerable is not valiant.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In many cases, there is confusion involved. The vulnerability may be regarded as an asset, which it is not. Contrary to this, AURELIS strives toward the last two letters: Inner Strength. That is not vulnerability. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=817\">Don\u2019t Be Vulnerable<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is also not the absence of vulnerability. Inner Strength may reside in not hiding one\u2019s vulnerability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without naivet\u00e9 \u2015 vulnerability may attract those who want to abuse it. Many equivocate gentleness with weakness. That is also to be avoided. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=1272\">Weak, Hard, Strong, Gentle<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Not being afraid to be vulnerable is genuinely valiant.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I regard this as very special and worthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether this is about a little girl standing up for someone else at school, or a soldier who risks his life for a friend in combat, it makes their actions deeply meaningful. Such persons gather strength to defend others. They are real heroes. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=2624\">Strength as a Virtue<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Some more example<\/strong>s<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>An organization that strives to be sufficiently robust to do good for many, even at the possible price of becoming <em>less<\/em> robust.<\/li><li>A scientist who works very hard in a domain that brings less remuneration but more meaningfulness in the world.<\/li><li>A person who gives away so much that it hurts.<\/li><li>A leader who dares to take personal risks.<\/li><li>A physician who doesn&#8217;t count so much on his all-knowing aura as on his empathy for patients.<\/li><li>Anyone who prefers looking deep inside above being comfortably numb.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>If only for the sake of validating this,<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>just \u2018being vulnerable\u2019 should not be seen as the prime asset, nor just showing one\u2019s vulnerability without striving for strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Frequently, I see stark examples of both.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people dare; others don\u2019t. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=5256\">Turtle Vagaries<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sadly, many don\u2019t even care to bother, even with many lives involved, as long as there\u2019s a safe place to hide one\u2019s privileges. May that be much more the case in particular times and places?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>It\u2019s the way to leadership.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you see a child being such a hero, be sure to give that child a well-meant compliment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Indeed, such is the way of a flower bud that is daring enough to open itself and be vulnerable as a flower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For a growing leader, it is the way to be daring enough to open oneself and be a profoundly human person and a symbolic leader at the same time. That is not easy, but eventually, the symbol always lies within the person. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=2276\">A Symbol Is Always YOU<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Open meditation may help in this, also towards leadership, especially the leader&#8217;s charisma. [see: &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=4430\">Leaders&#8217; Meditation<\/a>&#8220;]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Eventually, it is the strength of nature inside.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This kind of vulnerability makes a person grow. 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