{"id":5050,"date":"2021-03-24T03:55:17","date_gmt":"2021-03-24T03:55:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=5050"},"modified":"2021-03-24T14:56:54","modified_gmt":"2021-03-24T14:56:54","slug":"from-therapy-to-empathy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/healthcare\/from-therapy-to-empathy","title":{"rendered":"From Therapy to Empathy"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>The future cannot be to un-science. It cannot be without empathy in full mode.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The term \u2018therapist\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>comes from the Greek \u2018Serapis,\u2019 a Hellenization of the Egyptian god Osiris. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=679\">Isis\u2019 priests, named \u2018therapists\u2019<\/a>\u201d] I think that, in those ages, anyone with a serious psycho-somatic disorder could best go and visit such a temple. The priests \u2013 therapeutai \u2013 performed acts of placebo and empathy. From a modern viewpoint, there was hardly anything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the meantime, science has taken over many things. However, in psychotherapy, science hasn\u2019t been able to develop very efficient answers until now. Should we go back to unscientific temples?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s leave out placebo and focus on empathy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Empathy is very much underrated<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everybody \u2018does it\u2019 like everybody sings a song now and then. Yet, there\u2019s a difference with Whitney Houston at her prime.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The fact that there is little difference in efficiency between a math professor after a small \u2018course in therapy\u2019 and a fully educated and experienced psychotherapist may show that the empathy level in both is the same. It doesn\u2019t show that empathy itself cannot be refined.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psychotherapists are scientifically trained in the use of psychotherapeutic techniques but not in the use of empathy. Do you agree, my dear reader?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You might object to this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>&#8220;Empathy is an art and cannot be scientifically taught.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Precisely, it\u2019s an art \u2015 also. And it\u2019s also a science. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=5055\">Science of Empathy<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Both sides are crucially challenging to accomplish from a \u2018socially constructed reality\u2019 in which psychotherapeutic techniques fill a void. [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=4256\">Psychotherapy vs. Psychotherapies<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The void that has been filled cannot be fully used anymore to hold empathy. The cup is full. Emptiness is conceptualized \u2015 thus lost. Whence can originate Compassion, if not from \u2018emptiness\u2019 (the void that I am talking about)? [see: \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=413\">Emptiness!<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The empathic bird has two wings \u2013 art and science \u2013 that need to be considered, educated, respected, nurtured with practice and deep insight. If they are, the bird can fly. And indeed, it does!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Why are many psychotherapists reluctant to relinquish psychotherapeutic techniques?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my view, mainly because they don\u2019t see the possibility to fly. On the ground, indeed, wings are only a nuisance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secondly, many might think they sing like Whitney. There is no denigration in acknowledging that no, this is not \u2013 or seldom \u2013 the case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then there is the very grounded feeling that the techniques work. To get over this, my advice is to take antidepressants as an example \u2015 hardly (at most) working in a specifically depression-diminishing manner, yet they <em>feel<\/em> like working this way. That is the lure of placebo. Now think back on the techniques. You don\u2019t have to leave them. It is your decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In two drawings, what is thought to be:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E1.jpg?resize=427%2C324&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5059\" width=\"427\" height=\"324\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E1.jpg?w=420&amp;ssl=1 420w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E1.jpg?resize=300%2C228&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 427px) 100vw, 427px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>and what is to be realized:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E2.jpg?resize=490%2C281&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5060\" width=\"490\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E2.jpg?w=478&amp;ssl=1 478w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/T-E2.jpg?resize=300%2C172&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 490px) 100vw, 490px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The future: from therapy to empathy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a continuum from the first to the second balance. Empathy being partly science, it belongs to the world of science \u2015 not by losing the art but incorporating it. Also, since it is science, it should be an academic discipline.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many people depend on psychotherapists who rely on psychotherapeutic techniques. Abandoning the techniques just like that would have very negative consequences. Relinquishing the techniques in favor of full mode empathy\/Compassion is a different game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We don\u2019t have to wait for some future to let this happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my view, it is the only scientific and durable game.<\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"5050\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5050\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"5050\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"5050\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-5050\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5050\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The future cannot be to un-science. 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