There is no motivation but inner motivation. The inner<\/em> in this phrase is the region deep inside your mind where \u2018everything is formless\u2019. If you could go there in your imagination, you would not encounter any concrete ideas or feelings that you could handle in any way. Any endeavor to consciously do so would result in nothing but a feeling of unworldly strangeness.<\/p>\n Because you would only experience deep<\/em> meaning and deep<\/em> motivation.<\/p>\n Indeed, motivation eventually comes from very deep inside. So very that you cannot discern what is there. Thus it appears to be \u2018nothing.\u2019<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n In a practical sense, you can have the impression to motivate someone by pushing that person towards a certain goal. But that impression is incorrect. It would make sense if the deep-inside wouldn\u2019t be there. But it is. So whenever you think you can motivate someone by pushing, he may resist your pushing as a natural reaction. Well \u2013 resistance may be a big word, but whatever you want to call it, it may come in two ways: either as a counter-push or as a dissolving. Let\u2019s briefly look into these two.<\/p>\n In the former, the to-be-motivated person feels a clear counter-motivation that, as seen from outside, one could give a name. For example, you try to motivate your adolescent son and he feels deep inside that he has to resist this coercion from a dull and inconsiderate parent. Call it if you like: a clash of generations.<\/p>\n In the latter, there is a dissolving of your intended motivation. For example, you try to motivate your co-workers and they just don\u2019t feel motivated. They don\u2019t actively resist but they neither feel energized towards pushing boundaries. You may think they are difficult to be motivated. They are \u2013 precisely by your trying to push them.<\/p>\n So if you want someone to be motivated \u2013 not coerced but really motivated \u2013 towards some goal, then you have to let the motivation arise from deep inside that person.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n This amounts to finding the real goal that corresponds to your true motivation and<\/em> to the other person\u2019s: the goal that touches and sets into motion. This last word sounds like e-motion and that is no coincidence. An emotion is frequently involved in the process.<\/p>\n A well-chosen goal then puts the \u2018void\u2019 into action.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Where the \u2018energy\u2019 of your motivation comes from cannot be described as you would describe any object or idea or indeed \u2013 motivation. It\u2019s OK to think of it as a direction without an endpoint. At this end, there is no form anymore, only deepest meaning. The goals that really matter are to be found here. One encounters phrases such as \u201cI want to be respected by person X.\u201d or \u201cPerson Y doesn\u2019t give me any non-selfish attention.\u201d or \u201cI always wanted my life to have some meaning and now I have the feeling this is taken away from me.\u201d<\/p>\n Respect, attention, meaning\u2026<\/p>\n As you can see, at this level, the goals are very broadly human. The positive side is that we as human beings can encounter each other in this \u2013 and enjoy!<\/p>\n Deepest motivations are also a source of deepest joy.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n