Compassion is the most natural thing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Thus, there is no effort needed to get into the Compassionate journey. Rather, it needs a letting-go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The direction is towards harmony in the huge set of mental\/neuronal patterns of the mind\/brain. [see: \u201cHuman Brain: Giant Pattern Recognizer<\/a>\u201d] The more harmony, the less ‘stress.’<\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course, this letting-go is not straightforward.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Indeed, to most people, it is very difficult. This is because many people live in a conscious world as if no relevant non-conscious processing exists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To attain Compassion, consciousness is needed as well as non-conscious processing within the same entity (such as a human being). Their being present together within the same being creates a more or less subtle tension from which Compassion may emerge. However, if the tension is too big, one gets in a state of inner dissociation. [see: \u201cInner Dissociation is NEVER OK!<\/a>\u201d]<\/p>\n\n\n\n This is a crucial and challenging balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Compassion = seeing \u2013 growing \u2013 flowing<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n One grows \u2015 one flows. Within the flowing lies a spontaneous happening, a \u2018flowing over,\u2019 and finally a focus on doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n What is needed should be done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n However, doing more than what is needed is no Compassionate attitude. One should respect the inner Strength of the other person(s). Such an attitude may be less visible, less sellable, less remunerable in status and money. In-depth, it leads to a better outcome for the seer and the seen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n An example. Where\u2019s the math in this?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n You don\u2019t need to motivate a child if you look at it Compassionately. Is the child not good at math? Don\u2019t think the kid is naturally non-motivated or non-able to do math.<\/p>\n\n\n\n