{"id":4002,"date":"2020-11-04T20:42:23","date_gmt":"2020-11-04T20:42:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=4002"},"modified":"2025-03-15T13:21:43","modified_gmt":"2025-03-15T13:21:43","slug":"fear-of-dying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/sociocultural-issues\/fear-of-dying","title":{"rendered":"Fear of Dying"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Many people are irrationally afraid of dying, even while they know they will not suffer when being dead. Many know they are irrational in this, yet they don&#8217;t know why, and keep being afraid.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Every living being wants to live.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Straightforwardly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Well, depending on what you call &#8216;wanting.&#8217; Does a bacterium want to live? It sure acts as if it does. There may be &#8216;wanting,&#8217; but then only a tiny bit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Further on in evolution, the more complex the living entity, the more we can call what it does &#8216;wanting&#8217; in a way that we can correctly recognize.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s go way up from a bacterium now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A rabbit wants to live. It doesn&#8217;t want to die.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Straightforwardly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But does a rabbit know what it is, &#8216;to live&#8217;?&nbsp; Does it know what it is, to &#8216;die and be dead&#8217;? Has it <em>conceptual<\/em> insight about such?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There may be some, but then only a tiny bit. Interestingly, a rabbit doesn&#8217;t need to conceptually know anything about living and dying. It doesn&#8217;t need to be philosophically minded in order to want to live and not to die. It just does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Does it do a wanting, and is there then a life and not a death that it is wanting, just as there is a juicy carrot that it can be wanting?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>You see where I&#8217;m going at?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The fear of dying comes before the concept of dying. The fear of death comes before the concept of death.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Many humans live in fear of death.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Why? If you&#8217;re dead, you&#8217;re dead. One can be afraid of the underworld, but even those who don&#8217;t believe in such still are frequently subject to a fear of death. They rationally know that they will not be unhappy when dead. They will only be dead when dead. So, why being afraid of it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One can have a fear of dying in pain, but even without any pain, people frequently have a fear of dying, just by the idea of being dead soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since everybody will be dead soon enough, it&#8217;s a troublesome issue for many. To philosophers \u2013 as we almost all are at some point in life \u2013 it&#8217;s difficult to understand where this fear of dying comes from. It&#8217;s not logically rational.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Then we go back to the rabbit and before.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inasmuch as &lt;death&gt; is not a valid concept to the rabbit, &lt;fear of death&gt; must be one. In other words, there is a &lt;fear of death&gt; as a singular entity. One can call it a feeling or motivation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In &lt;wanting to live&gt; one can even more readily see a motivation. To the rabbit, it is probably the same feeling\/motivation as &lt;fear of death&gt;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Back to the human<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We conceptualize so gladly. Yet sometimes we overdo, such as in this case. To the human being, as an organism, &lt;fear of death&gt; and &lt;fear of dying&gt; and &lt;wanting to live&gt; are also present as such, more or less as to the rabbit. Tearing it apart into &#8216;fear&#8217; and &#8216;dying,&#8217; the issue of &#8216;why?&#8217; is not solvable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, we can work with both as concepts. We can tear &lt;fear of dying&gt; apart into these. But then we are at risk of losing &lt;fear of dying&gt; as an entity by itself. We are at risk of not understanding this feeling\/motivation as a deeply human happening. We are at risk of losing its poetry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Then, when encountering &#8216;death,&#8217; we don&#8217;t know how to handle it properly.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are pro-life even when this being-pro has nothing to do with &#8216;life&#8217; but with &lt;wanting to live&gt;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are against euthanasia even when this being-against has nothing to do with &#8216;death&#8217; but with &lt;fear of dying&gt;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We should value poetry much more. 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