\u2018Unwanted\u2019 = you don\u2019t want it.<\/strong><\/p>\n This is not about what someone else would want \u2013 including me \u2013 nor \u2018what society wants.\u2019 Unless then again this is what YOU want.<\/p>\n I have seen things<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n that I would rather have not. Like: people (including some of my patients in pre-AURELIS era) being very unhappy because of their gaining 13 kg (26 pounds) in just a few years after putting down their last cigarette.<\/p>\n Very, very unhappy.<\/p>\n Sometimes they came with the story that \u201cyou see, this is inevitable because (I\u2019ve read that) cigarettes have this effect on the body and thus quitting smoking has this\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n blah, blah, blah.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n Body and mind are the same thing.<\/p>\n You can look at body. You can look at mind.<\/p>\n It\u2019s the same thing.<\/p>\n More precisely, it is one thing. Not a summation.<\/p>\n Sometimes it\u2019s better to look at this thing with body-glasses and sometimes it\u2019s better to look at it with mind-glasses.<\/p>\n AURELIS = <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n giving you every possible support to look at it with deeper-mind-glasses<\/p>\n in order for you to have your own choice. Not even my choice. YOUR choice. I agree: people are generally not used to having this choice. Thus it may appear somewhat uncanny. Forced even.<\/p>\n It is the opposite.<\/p>\n