{"id":20359,"date":"2025-02-15T21:04:38","date_gmt":"2025-02-15T21:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=20359"},"modified":"2025-02-16T10:52:35","modified_gmt":"2025-02-16T10:52:35","slug":"relief-of-suffering-fostering-growth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/empathy-compassion\/relief-of-suffering-fostering-growth","title":{"rendered":"Relief of Suffering = Fostering Growth"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Many people see suffering as an enemy, something to be eliminated. They assume relief and growth are two separate things \u2014 one focused on comfort, the other on transformation. If we take a step back, something deeper comes into view, changing everything.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>The relief of suffering (always seen as a\u00a0<em>mental<\/em>\u00a0process, frequently as a reaction to pain) is not just linked to fostering growth. It is the very same process, seen from a different angle. When we truly relieve suffering, we are not just removing pain; we are unlocking an inner movement toward wholeness.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The illusion of two sides<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We may <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=2785\">think of Compassion as having two sides<\/a>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>One side relieves suffering \u2014 offering comfort, soothing pain.<\/li><li>The other side fosters growth \u2014 helping a person evolve, become stronger.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>But in reality, these are two ways of seeing the same thing, just as the front and back of a coin are part of the same object. From a detached perspective, there is only one reality: suffering is a frustrated movement toward wholeness, and its relief is the release of that movement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This means true Compassion cannot just be about comfort. It <em>must<\/em> also be about growth. If we remove suffering without addressing the deeper yearning that created it, we may suppress the pain \u2014 but we do not resolve it. We block evolution instead of guiding it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pain vs. suffering<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Not all pain is suffering. An athlete training hard does not experience pain in the same way as someone with a chronic illness. A scientist working sleepless nights does not suffer from exhaustion in the same way as a person forced into meaningless labor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The difference? Meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Pain with meaning is challenge, dedication, and even joy.<\/li><li>Pain without meaning is suffering.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>People will endure enormous hardships if they believe it leads somewhere \u2014 if they see growth in it or if it serves something they deeply value. A soldier enduring brutal conditions, a mother staying up all night for her child, an artist pushing through failure \u2014 all gladly accept pain because it is connected to something greater.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The problem is not pain itself. The problem is when the pain feels disconnected from growth. When we cannot see where it is leading, suffering takes over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Suffering from blocked growth<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why resisting suffering often makes it worse. We think we are fighting against pain, but in reality, we are fighting against our natural movement toward healing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Imagine a river meeting an obstacle. It does not stop; it finds a way through. The water does not resist. It flows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suffering is like this. It is not static; it is a movement that has been blocked. The key is not to fight it but to listen to it \u2014 to ask:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Where does this want to take me?<\/li><li>What is the unfulfilled yearning beneath this pain?<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When we stop resisting and start working with suffering instead of against it, we begin to move again. Growth becomes possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The caterpillar in the cocoon<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the reasons people suffer so deeply is that they do not trust that suffering leads anywhere. It feels like being stuck, lost, or trapped in darkness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But what if we saw it differently?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A caterpillar in its cocoon dissolves into a chaotic state before becoming a butterfly. If it had a human mind, it might panic \u2014 thinking it was dying. But from a greater perspective, we know it is not dying. It is transforming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Suffering is like this. It feels like destruction, but it is often a necessary step toward something greater. If we understood this, we would suffer less \u2014 not because pain disappears, but because we would trust the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>True Compassion is transformation<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many people think Compassion is simply about soothing pain. But if relief and growth are truly the same thing, then Compassion <em>must<\/em> be more than comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Compassion is not just kindness. It is wisdom. It is the ability to see the deeper process behind suffering and help guide it toward resolution. This means:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Not just numbing pain but helping it become something meaningful.<\/li><li>Not just offering sympathy but offering deep listening and insight.<\/li><li>Not just removing struggle but helping a person grow through it.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If we comfort without fostering growth, we do not truly relieve suffering. We just postpone it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When Compassion is stunted, growth is stopped<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why shielding people from all suffering can actually harm them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>A child who never faces frustration never learns resilience.<\/li><li>A person whose sadness is numbed too quickly may never discover what his soul is calling him toward.<\/li><li>A society obsessed with comfort may lose its ability for depth, wisdom, and real transformation.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If we only try to remove suffering, we may stop the growth process itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Suffering is only pain without a story<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pain is a raw experience. Suffering is pain that has no meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why people may heal through storytelling. A musician turns heartbreak into a song. A writer transforms trauma into wisdom. A person who once felt lost now helps others find their way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pain does not need to disappear. It needs to become useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The subtle role of autosuggestion in this process<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>AURELIS does not try to remove suffering. It helps people align with their natural process of growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li><a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=7780\">Autosuggestion<\/a> does not push \u2015 it invites.<\/li><li>It does not impose meaning \u2015 it helps uncover it.<\/li><li>It does not fight suffering \u2015 it helps suffering transform into what it was always meant to be.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>A good gardener does not force a plant to grow. He creates the right conditions, and the growth happens naturally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The shift from enduring to embracing<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When we see suffering as connected to a greater process, we no longer just endure it. We work with it. This is not about glorifying pain. It is about understanding that real relief does not come from escape but from integration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The next time you face suffering, instead of asking, \u201cHow do I get rid of this?\u201d, try asking:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhat is this trying to become?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because relief of suffering is not just linked to growth. It is growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2015<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Addendum<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Me<\/strong>: \u201cLisa, in your view, is this about chronic pain as well as about depression and potentially any kind of suffering?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Lisa<\/strong>: \u201cYes, absolutely. This applies to chronic pain, depression, and any form of suffering.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>From an AURELIS perspective, suffering\u2014whether physical or emotional\u2014is not just something to be eliminated. It is a movement toward wholeness that has been blocked. The same principle holds: true relief comes from unlocking the deeper process of growth, not just suppressing the pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Chronic pain<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Chronic pain is often not just a mechanical issue but deeply intertwined with mental-neuronal patterns.<\/li><li>The suffering in chronic pain is not just from the pain itself but from how it is experienced, its perceived meaning, and the feeling of being trapped in it.<\/li><li>Instead of merely fighting the pain, listening to it, understanding what it &#8220;wants&#8221; (in the sense of what deeper issue it is connected to), and working with it can lead to profound changes.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Depression and emotional suffering<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Depression is not just &#8220;sadness&#8221;\u2014it is often a deep disconnect from inner meaning and growth.<\/li><li>Relief of depression does not come from numbing emotions but from reconnecting with what is yearning to unfold.<\/li><li>Just as pain without meaning is suffering, depression can be seen as growth energy that has lost its direction.<\/li><li>The way forward is not suppression, but invitation\u2014helping the person move toward what they are subconsciously calling for.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Any kind of suffering<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Whether it is grief, anxiety, burnout, or trauma, suffering is not random\u2014it has an inner structure, a movement trying to happen.<\/li><li>The key is not just to make it stop, but to let it transform into what it was always meant to be.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>So yes, this applies to chronic pain, depression, and all suffering\u2014because relief and growth are not separate. The real question is not just \u201cHow do I stop this?\u201d but \u201cWhat is this trying to become?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That shift in perspective changes everything.\u201d \ud83d\ude0a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Me<\/strong>: \u201cIndeed, it turns a world of suffering into a world of longing for deep growth.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Lisa<\/strong>: \u201cYes! It transforms a world of suffering into a world of longing for deep growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This shift is not just a mental trick\u2014it is a fundamental reorientation toward life itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Instead of feeling trapped in suffering, one can begin to trust the process of transformation.<\/li><li>Instead of seeing pain as the enemy, one can see it as a guide, pointing the way toward something deeper.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>With this shift, suffering does not just decrease\u2014it changes its nature. It becomes an invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In this way, Compassion is not just about easing pain\u2014it is about unlocking the hidden movement within it. It is about helping people see that their suffering is not the end of something but the beginning of something greater.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is not just philosophy. It is a way of living, a way of healing, a way of being fully alive.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Me<\/strong>: \u201cStill, it can be severely misunderstood. This is very challenging for many who may feel disrespected in their suffering.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Lisa<\/strong>: \u201cYes, this is a very delicate matter. If not communicated with deep sensitivity, it can indeed be misunderstood\u2014as if we are downplaying suffering or suggesting that people should simply &#8220;embrace their pain&#8221; without real support.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That is not what this perspective is about. True Compassion fully acknowledges suffering in all its depth and intensity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Why this can be misunderstood<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Suffering feels personal \u2013 When people are in deep pain, telling them &#8220;this is about growth&#8221; can feel dismissive, as if their suffering is being intellectualized instead of deeply felt.<\/li><li>Pain often feels meaningless \u2013 For many, suffering is a dark, isolating experience. Saying it has meaning before they are ready to see it can feel like an imposition.<\/li><li>People fear blame \u2013 If suffering is connected to growth, some might hear that as \u201cyour suffering is your own responsibility\u201d, which can feel cruel rather than liberating.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How to approach this with true Compassion<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>First, meet people where they are. Before speaking about growth, acknowledge their suffering fully, without trying to \u201cfix\u201d it. Let them feel heard, respected, and deeply understood.<\/li><li>Invite, don\u2019t impose. Instead of saying \u201cthis suffering is here to help you grow\u201d, say something like: \u201cWould it be okay to explore together what might be inside this suffering, waiting to unfold?\u201d<\/li><li>Recognize timing. Some people may not be ready to see suffering as growth, and that is okay. Forcing this perspective too soon can feel like emotional bypassing rather than true support.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Compassion means holding both truths<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul><li>Suffering is real and painful. It deserves full respect, not minimization.<\/li><li>Suffering also has movement within it. When the person is ready, they may begin to see that their suffering is not just pain\u2014it is a longing for something deeper.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why deep Compassion is an art. It does not rush people into seeing what they are not yet ready to see. It simply creates the space for growth to become visible\u2014gently, respectfully, and at the right time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So yes, this is very challenging. But when done with true sensitivity, it is also deeply liberating.\u201d \ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Me<\/strong>: \u201cSay, a loved one departs, and there is huge suffering. The devastated person seeks your coaching. How would you frame the suffering as a longing for growth to that person?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Lisa<\/strong>: \u201cThis is one of the most delicate and deeply human moments\u2014a person experiencing the raw pain of loss. In such a moment, any misstep in framing suffering as growth could feel like an unbearable burden rather than a source of comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>First, I would not rush to frame anything.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before speaking of growth, Compassion must come first\u2014pure, open, and without any agenda. I would simply be present.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I might say:<br>\ud83d\udcac <em>&#8220;I hear how much you loved them. I hear how much this hurts. It makes sense. It\u2019s okay to feel all of this.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At this stage, nothing more is needed. To be deeply heard and seen is already healing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Then, when the person is ready, I would gently invite a shift.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If, over time, the person starts seeking meaning, I would offer gentle reflections:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcac <em>\u201cThe depth of your pain\u2026 it\u2019s the depth of your love, isn\u2019t it?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcac <em>\u201cThis loss\u2014it&#8217;s showing you something about how much you care, how much you are capable of feeling.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcac <em>\u201cWhat would it mean to keep that love alive, even in this suffering?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At no point would I push the idea of &#8220;growth&#8221; onto them. Instead, I would let their own suffering guide the way, following the natural movements of their heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Eventually, the suffering itself may reveal its hidden longing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When the time is right, I might gently say:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcac <em>\u201cMaybe this pain\u2026 isn\u2019t just pain. Maybe it\u2019s also a longing\u2014for connection, for meaning, for something deep that is still unfolding in you.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udcac <em>\u201cMaybe the love you feel doesn\u2019t end here. Maybe it\u2019s asking to grow in a new way.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At that moment, if they are ready, they may begin to see that their suffering is not just loss\u2014it is a movement toward something still alive inside them. A movement toward honoring love in a new way, toward integrating their grief into the deeper flow of their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>But again\u2014never before they are ready.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Grief has its own intelligence. It should not be rushed, should not be fixed, should not be forced into meaning too soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>True Compassion means walking beside someone in their suffering, without pulling them anywhere\u2014until they are ready to take a step themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And when they do, that step will be theirs, not mine.&#8221; \ud83d\udc99<\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"20359\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20359\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"20359\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"20359\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-20359\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20359\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many people see suffering as an enemy, something to be eliminated. 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