{"id":15850,"date":"2024-06-15T20:07:31","date_gmt":"2024-06-15T20:07:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=15850"},"modified":"2024-06-16T06:37:36","modified_gmt":"2024-06-16T06:37:36","slug":"what-is-boring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/cognitive-insights\/what-is-boring","title":{"rendered":"What is Boring?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Boring is what doesn\u2019t profoundly touch a person \u2014 depending on the \u2018what\u2019 and the person. What resonates deeply with one\u2019s inner self?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\"><p>That changes the question into what it means to \u201cbe deeply touched\u201d \u2015 influenced by depth and personal relevance.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>What makes experiences and interactions meaningful or engaging to individuals?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This relates to how personal growth and inner strength are nurtured\u2026 You see, we are connecting elements but are still circling the key issue, which seems challenging to grasp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s keep circling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The importance of understanding and connecting with one\u2019s deeper self is paramount.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without the connection, there is meaninglessness and boredom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As we all know, what is deeply touching varies significantly between individuals based on their unique inner landscapes. However, common to it all is the importance of understanding <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=7705\">human depth<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Many people even deny its existence or ignore it entirely. No wonder we are facing a cultural <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=6618\">meaning crisis<\/a>. This leads to the need for ever stronger substitutes \u2014 resulting in rampant consumerism and a relentless focus on \u2018purchasing power,\u2019 even at the detriment of Mother Earth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is not good at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So, what is boring?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boring is what doesn\u2019t give you energy (= deep human motivation).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Boring is what you don\u2019t give energy to through authentic engagement; it is what you don\u2019t allow yourself to be open to, letting it touch your soul. Especially now, this seems to be a problem \u2014 not only for young people but across all age groups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It seems to be less openly discussed than it was during the era of \u2018spleen\u2019 and \u2018mal de si\u00e8cle.\u2019 The main reason for this, in my view, is that we can hide ourselves much more effectively using present-day technology: TV, social media, gamification, consumerism&#8230; We have substitutes for deep engagement in an avalanche of superficial touches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But that does not satisfy anyone at the soul level. Eventually, being bored might even be preferable to feeling nothing, which can lead to illness or depression from the void.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being bored is easy by itself. Overcoming it may be more challenging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Subconceptual communication (also known as autosuggestion) plays a significant role.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Its role in enhancing personal engagement and making experiences more meaningful is beyond any doubt. Through specific autosuggestion practices, one can explore one\u2019s inner self to discover what truly resonates in work, life, and play. Lisa can assist with practices such as mindfulness, guided meditations, trying new activities, and being fully present in each moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, the primary requirement for this is Openness. Without Openness, experiences remain superficial and unfulfilling. With Openness, one can seek and create experiences that resonate deeply and foster personal growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nature thrives on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We thrive on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Otherwise, we end up in depression or <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=15857\">burnout, of which \u2018being bored\u2019 is a telling sign<\/a>.<\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"15850\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15850\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"15850\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"15850\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-15850\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15850\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Boring is what doesn\u2019t profoundly touch a person \u2014 depending on the \u2018what\u2019 and the person. 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