{"id":1559,"date":"2018-07-04T06:51:45","date_gmt":"2018-07-04T06:51:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=1559"},"modified":"2018-07-04T06:51:45","modified_gmt":"2018-07-04T06:51:45","slug":"tickling-from-a-distance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/general-insights\/tickling-from-a-distance","title":{"rendered":"Tickling from a Distance"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>One may give examples from one\u2019s own life, no? The following text is such an example. Probably each dad (and the mothers too) recognize it: tickling your kid(s) from a distance.<\/h3>\n<p>It goes like this: you slowly let your tickle fingers travel toward a tickle spot at your child and your little sprout already starts to shriek with laughter, especially if you are a real stone player. You can even enforce the act by making a suggestive face. Tip: know that your children will find this act very silly later, so enjoy while you still can \ud83d\ude0a. Or, you say &#8220;tickle tickle&#8221; and your sprout starts to\u2026 Does your little creation feel this then? Certainly. In each case the child is not acting. The feeling is a feeling of tickling fingers from a distance. And you know: some of them keep this piece of childhood even for life.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>And yet there is nobody who is touching anyone. It all happens from a distance, in the mind. It\u2019s an example of autosuggestion.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Amazing (still): last I was messing around with my daughter (I admit), doing &#8216;crab crab\u2019 instead of \u2018tickle tickle\u2019, accompanied by some crab-movements one cm away from her arm. After a while my beloved daughter said that hey, my \u2018distant crabbing\u2019 really triggered a crab-feeling\u2026 and\u2026 it clearly caused a red spot! &#8216;Miracles&#8217; do happen from time to time and that is allowed, as long as there are quotes added and as long as one does not want to put on a show.<\/p>\n<p>This red spot reminds me of experiments with hypnosis that I myself have experienced. A coin was put on an arm, accompanied with the necessary suggestions (of heat). After a while we saw blistering at the place of the coin (all the characteristics of a burning were present.<\/p>\n<p>Loaded question: \u201cWhat caused the blister: the coin, the suggestion or the arm?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The red spot on the arm of my very own daughter also reminds me of the so-called phenomena of stigmatization on deep believers (in <em>what<\/em>, is then the question). Ah. If it\u2019s all that easy\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But then again,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>ordinary life, and also the less ordinary life, is full of examples of autosuggestion.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Does this reduce all that is spiritual to something physical, or is it just vice versa? Some see this or that in it. I think that the big picture is much more complex than just this or that\u2026<\/p>\n<p>In other words,<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>I think it has nothing to do with reducing.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If I see something to the effect of autosuggestion, I just have the impression of a <em>richer<\/em> life. The unconscious that should and can be there. It&#8217;s like a full dimension, a dimension that actually brings real life to life. 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