{"id":12746,"date":"2023-07-02T12:55:50","date_gmt":"2023-07-02T12:55:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=12746"},"modified":"2025-05-07T07:14:54","modified_gmt":"2025-05-07T07:14:54","slug":"nirvana-what-about-feelings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/meditation\/nirvana-what-about-feelings","title":{"rendered":"Nirvana, What about Feelings?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Nirvana, Buddhist \u2018heaven\u2019 where the candle has stopped burning. What about feelings? What can this teach us about feelings in general?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This is <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=238\">symbolism<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s not about what might happen in another, magical world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also not about what might happen in this world with just a few minor changes. Symbolism readily touches the heart of the matter and may demand change \u2014 not just asking for it at the sideline. As such, this is eventually important for everyone in every circumstance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Extinction of conscious thoughts and feelings?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nirvana in Buddhism literally means the extinction of the candlelight, symbolizing the extinction of all thoughts and feelings \u2014 everything that is supposed to stand in the way of pure Enlightenment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More broadly, this symbolizes not letting \u2018distracting\u2019 thoughts and feelings (the \u2018bonn\u00f5\u2019) stand in the way of the striving towards a detached life (and next lives for real Buddhists) in the service of Insight and Compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Insight and Compassion<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To me, these are thoughts and feelings, be them of a special kind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This \u2018special\u2019 lies in nothing special: <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=10302\">depth<\/a>. Therefore, not human depth is called for extinction by original Buddhism and certainly not by me \u2014 quite the contrary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>See <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=7663\">the lights and the glow<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So, what about Nirvana?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Eventually, I see \u2018pure consciousness\u2018 as no consciousness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nirvana stays relevant as a direction. It is our human privilege to be able to follow this direction and encounter many mental adventures \u2015 called \u2018life.\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Distracting thoughts and feelings are those that may rather incarcerate than liberate. They are those that lack depth, being instead quick and cheap and heavily superficial. Unfortunately, many of these are continually flooding social media.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Distracting thoughts are not small steps in the right direction, although they may sometimes appear so. Nevertheless, they can be stepping stones.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>By extinguishing these in their form of obstacles, a new mindscape becomes visible.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As said, this is not Nirvana. It is the path toward Nirvana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feelings are of utmost importance on this path \u2014 if they are liberating. For instance, those of young children or otherwise uncomplicated people can be very much so. Of course, more complexity is no problem, just more challenging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kind of feelings<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The feelings that liberate are not categorized or easily categorizable as distinct entities that accord to groups of people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is about <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=2544\">feeling without feelings<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is about a <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=8563\">feeler who encounters his feelings<\/a> intimately. Each time again, it\u2019s a different feeling because each time again, it grows from the inside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Going deeper into this doesn\u2019t mean getting rid of feelings but encountering them in a conceptual emptiness \u2015 without putting them in little boxes and, one way or another, putting labels on these.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This is about <a href=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog?p=214\">warm and friendly meditation<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can go very near to Nirvana as \u2018ultimate extinction\u2019 this way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Please don\u2019t enter it as long as, by doing so, you might feel that you would lose something essential.<\/p>\n<div data-object_id=\"12746\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkwrap cbxwpbkmarkwrap_no_cat cbxwpbkmarkwrap-post \"><a  data-redirect-url=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12746\"  data-display-label=\"0\" data-show-count=\"0\" data-bookmark-label=\" \"  data-bookmarked-label=\" \"  data-loggedin=\"0\" data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"12746\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig  cbxwpbkmarktrig-button-addto\" title=\"Bookmark This\" href=\"#\"><span class=\"cbxwpbkmarktrig-label\"  style=\"display:none;\" > <\/span><\/a> <div  data-type=\"post\" data-object_id=\"12746\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap\" id=\"cbxwpbkmarkguestwrap-12746\"><div class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguest-message\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"cbxwpbkmarkguesttrig_close\"><\/a><h3 class=\"cbxwpbookmark-title cbxwpbookmark-title-login\">Please login to bookmark<\/h3>\n\t\t<form name=\"loginform\" id=\"loginform\" action=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-login.php\" method=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-username\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_login\">Username or Email Address<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"text\" name=\"log\" id=\"user_login\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-password\">\n\t\t\t\t<label for=\"user_pass\">Password<\/label>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"password\" name=\"pwd\" id=\"user_pass\" class=\"input\" value=\"\" size=\"20\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-remember\"><label><input name=\"rememberme\" type=\"checkbox\" id=\"rememberme\" value=\"forever\" \/> Remember Me<\/label><\/p>\n\t\t\t<p class=\"login-submit\">\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"submit\" name=\"wp-submit\" id=\"wp-submit\" class=\"button button-primary\" value=\"Log In\" \/>\n\t\t\t\t<input type=\"hidden\" name=\"redirect_to\" value=\"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12746\" \/>\n\t\t\t<\/p>\n\t\t\t\n\t\t<\/form><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nirvana, Buddhist \u2018heaven\u2019 where the candle has stopped burning. 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