{"id":1164,"date":"2018-05-18T17:12:24","date_gmt":"2018-05-18T17:12:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/?p=1164"},"modified":"2023-07-28T18:03:03","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T18:03:03","slug":"doing-good-not-as-easy-as-it-seems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aurelis.org\/blog\/general-insights\/doing-good-not-as-easy-as-it-seems","title":{"rendered":"\u2018Doing Good\u2019: Not as Easy as It Seems"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3>Imagine you are a &#8216;special kind of therapist&#8217;. Good. All kinds of people come by your place with a &#8216;problem&#8217; and they leave with a sense of relief, glad they came along.<\/h3>\n<p>After a while they come back and then the same phenomenon occurs. Friendly faces. Nothing to worry about. &#8216;Doing good&#8217; seems evident.<\/p>\n<p>Is everything okay?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>But let us look a little bit deeper now<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(because you are a \u2018special kind of therapist&#8217;) and what <em>might<\/em> we see? All kinds of things are possible. For example: people turn to you with a smoking addiction and they immediately get a few cigarettes from you and a good stock of the white thingies. Hm. They leave relieved and are glad they came along. Friendly faces. Everything is okay?<\/p>\n<p>Or more generally: people come with a general addiction and you immediately give something general and also a good stock of generality &#8230; Hm. You see: why they come and how they leave gets a different meaning because of this, or not? (You can reread this paragraph later on.)<\/p>\n<p>How far should one go?<\/p>\n<p>How deep should one go?<\/p>\n<p>Lots of serious addicts start their pernicious career with hard drugs\u2026 on prescription.<\/p>\n<p>Addiction to superficiality knows many adepts within health care. Their high priest is called &#8216;Placebo&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>How far should one go?<\/p>\n<p>Were missionaries &#8216;correct&#8217; by being contrary to the culture of indigenous populations? Or do we see thing &#8216;more correct&#8217; if we notice that just a lot of problems were the result of it?<\/p>\n<p>Somewhat (but not overly) generalizing, one can say: a weight-reducing diet &#8216;works&#8217;, but it is usually a pendulum that returns stronger than it left. Is &#8216;helping&#8217; someone at following a weight-reducing diet, &#8216;doing good&#8217;? Not evident.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>A lot of alternative medicines are, in theory, clearly based on nothing. <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Is this innocent? Or do the people who feel helped eventually end up in a negative spiral?<\/p>\n<p>The latter is quite possible.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s even likely.<\/p>\n<p>Is it worth it?<\/p>\n<p>It cannot be said more powerfully than reality itself does it.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>It&#8217;s not because someone laughs, that it is clear that \u2018the good has been done&#8217; for that person. <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It might even be the case that in the meantime for this person something entirely different is being done.<\/p>\n<p><em>It&#8217;s possible!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And it has so often been the case. 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Good. All kinds of people come by your place with a &#8216;problem&#8217; and they leave with a sense of relief, glad they came along. After a while they come back and then the same phenomenon occurs. Friendly faces. Nothing to worry about. &#8216;Doing good&#8217; seems evident. 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