Please read about AURELIS five ethical values<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Note that this is not an ethics of \u201cThy must or thy may not.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Professional<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Being an ethical coach is not just relevant to professional conduct. It goes deeper. Professional conduct should still be regulated, but the more profound ethics of this text ideally makes those regulations unnecessary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It\u2019s better not to need them than to have to abide by them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Also, it\u2019s better to grow the ethics than to interiorize it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The coach as a person<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Since the coach is the instrument, the ethics in coaching is directly personal. It\u2019s not only about how the coach behaves but who he is and how he brings his being to the fore during the coaching. Additionally, since it\u2019s personal, it\u2019s also related to how the coach behaves between coaching sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It is an ethics of invitation, of continually making an effort and letting things grow from the inside out \u2015 as a result of self-coaching. Interestingly, the coach is thus coaching two people simultaneously.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Toward an effective coach<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Being ethical in the AURELIS sense, the coach can show the coachee the most ethical path to Inner Strength and health. It makes the coach \u2013 and the path \u2013 trustworthy<\/u><\/em> from the beginning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The coachee can be open<\/u><\/em> and feels respected<\/u><\/em> because he sees the same in the person of the coach. Also, he sees why depth<\/u><\/em> is important and how it can be realized in many ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finally, the freedom<\/u><\/em> he feels in the whole endeavor diminishes his possible resistance to change \u2015 knowing that any change will happen from the inside<\/a> out and when he is ready as a total person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n All this leads to optimally effective coaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Compassionately<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n This is about the coach\u2019s self-Compassion that flows into Compassion<\/a> \u2015 inviting the coachee\u2019s self-compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n